Create a yearly framework for soulful growth + goals

This is the third lesson in the 5 lessons in 5 weeks for creative + intentional living. Each week, I’ll be sending an email and posting to the blog, so pick and choose which of these practices feel good to do for you. If you don’t vibe with this one, that’s cool… there’s more coming your way, soon :) If you want these directly to your email, sign up here.

Create a yearly framework for soulful growth + goals

Setting intentions for your life, when aligned with who you really are, provide a beautiful framework for soulful growth.

You lay the groundwork by creating a beautiful timeline for your desires to manifest, set the intentions by putting creative energy into them, then watch things unfold.

This is a process I’ve used many times over to help stay focused on what I want most out of life: truth, love, and freedom.

I add things to my intentional + hanging calendar right off the bat, then adjust and make room for things as life occurs. Using this method allows me creative power in my life and also the ability to FLOW with what life offers me, too.

Read on to learn more about how to set + hang your yearly intentions for soulful growth + goals…

INTENTIONS + SYNCHRONICITIES

My world revolves around intentions and synchronicities. Whenever I set an intention, or ask the universe for help, I keep my eyes open to the answer. It can come in the form of a feather, a car up for sale (true story), or a piece of mail. These types of things have no meaning on their own, but by prescribing your own meaning to them, it can help you make decisions and create your life with more ease.

Intentions inspire me by keeping my spirit lifted and focused on what I want to create in my life. Whenever I feel unsure about how to move forward, I look to my yearly goals and other hanging intentions for confirmation: does this situation, job, or project fit within my current intentions? If it doesn’t totally fit, can I make space for it, if it aligns with who I truly am?

MAKING SPACE

Some things require their own natural timing. When we begin to force things to happen, we don’t feel good because we’re expecting them to happen. And when they don’t? We feel disappointed, ashamed, frustrated. Not good feelings to send out into the universe about the life you want to live, right?

This is why making space is important, so be aware of where you may be pushing too hard.

If you want to move, travel, or find a new partner, put that on your calendar. Space it out somewhere it feels good. Only you will know when this is, whether it’s next month or next year.

Once it’s written down on your calendar, choose to be open to whatever happens :)

MANIFESTING: 5 QUESTIONS TO HONE INTO WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

Take a few minutes to uncover some of your goals for the upcoming year. Here are some questions to take into consideration:

  • how do you want to feel? How can you feel more of this feeling?
  • what would you most like to be experiencing in the next few months?
  • what have you put off that you’d like to enjoy?
  • where do you want to travel?
  • what’s something that feels TOO BIG, but you want to do, anyway?

Journal these out and give it some focus.

Listen to your intuition.

When you ask yourself these questions, say them out loud, then close your eyes.

What comes to mind?

This might give you clues into what steps to take next. Also, keep track of the dreams you have – sometimes they can tip you into the right direction, too.

TIME TO GET DOWN TO BIZNASS

Create a yearly framework for soulful growth + goals

Supplies:

  • your goals + feelings for the next year
  • roll of butcher paper: head out somewhere like Hobby Lobby or Target. They seriously run for about $5 and last quite awhile. (They also are fabulous for creating unique wrapping paper, or posters for your wall).
  • Sharpies, or other fun markers
  • push pins and / or tape to hang your yearly intentions up

Create a yearly framework for soulful growth + goals

DIRECTIONS! :)

  1. Pull out a piece that will fit a space on a wall that’s in a high traffic area that you will pay attention to.
  2. Cut the butcher paper, then divide the piece into as many sections as years you have sketched out from the beginning exercise. It’s totally fie if you’ve only figured out the next year only, but always cool to make room for the upcoming years, too. Give yourself some breathing room when you sketch out the years. Leave room for magic to happen!
  3. Then, add your desires in chronological order.
    1. My yearly intentions have anything on it from taking a trip to the Oregon Coast (July 2014), a January 2015 vacation to the Dominican Republic and an intention to be fully self-employed by the end of next year (2015). If you don’t know when something will materialize, put it somewhere on the calendar to give it some space and time to do so. If it’s truly aligned with who you really are, setting these intentions will help you grow into that space, so leave lots of room!

Create a yearly framework for soulful growth + goals

You can use sharpies (my favorite!) to decorate and organize your yearly intentions and goals.

Be sure to refer to these goals and intentions monthly, to review and edit, where needed.

Plus, hanging it somewhere highly trafficked will give you the chance to see these goals daily and keep the top of mind.

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So, tell me: what do you MOST want to create in your life this year?

Have fun + live magically,

Kristen

PS. Want to read more? Here’s week one and here’s week two.

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[VIDEO]: Introducing Vision Quest (+ how to win a free spot), my upcoming rebranding,+ your journey with AYE

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Hello, my dear!

This is a new one.

I’ve always sorta hid behind my words. I decided it was time to STEP INTO THE LIGHT.

So, here I am. And, like I say in the video, I am here to share a little nugget of energy with you, today :)

If you don’t have time to listen, here’s the gist:

  • Vision Quest embarks next Monday, October 20. You can:
    • Enter to win a free spot until Thursday, here, or
    • Purchase your spot (there are only 5 available) here. You have until Sunday afternoon, October 19, to snag your spot. The investment will rise considerably after the first Vision Quest, so if you resonate and want to be a Founding Member, snag a spot, now. You’ll also receive some fun perks, such as a custom + intuitive painting, just for you, but shhh… and some other fun things just for this group.
    • If you want to hear more about the Vision Quest, watch / listen to the vid here.
  • I’m working on a rebrand of the website. The values are not changing, just the structure of the website to make it more clear + intuitive to better serve YOU!
  • Your journey when working with me will begin with a beautiful guide to letting go of negative beliefs (I’m working on this now). You may also download the free mini Truth Quest by either signing up here, or by emailing me if you can’t find the PDF when I sent it out last month.
  • You’re awesome.

Now, watch my funny facial expressions and verbal blunders. I like to say I’m imperfectly perfect.

YAY TO BEING HUMAN!

xo,

Kristen

Transform your space into something positive + meaningful with hanging intentions

This is the second lesson in the 5 lessons in 5 weeks for creative + intentional living. Each week, I’ll be sending an email and posting to the blog, so pick and choose which of these practices feel good to do for you. If you don’t vibe with this one, that’s cool… there’s more coming your way, soon :) If you want these directly to your email, sign up here.


Transform your space into something positive + meaningful with hanging intentions.

Some say that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with… and, I’d add that you’re also the average of the 5 places you spend the most time in! The thing is… we spend a third of our lives in our bedroom, sleeping. Another percentage is lived in the bathroom, kitchen, and living room. If you’re lucky, maybe it’s lived in your backyard or in the outdoors. Weee :)

The point is that our environment creates a huuuge affect on our confidence and self-esteem. What you invite into your home and put on your walls directly correlates to your quality of life.

Take a second and identify the space you spend the most time in your home.

A space that feels comfortable – where you are your most vulnerable.

Where is that?

Got it?

Cool.

This is the perfect place we’re going to hang up intentions.

Setting intentions

Before we can even begin to create hanging intentions, you need to understand how to write them.

This is quite simple, as long as you’re confident in your own truth.

Ask yourself:

  • what do I most want to attract?
  • what do I want more of in my life?
  • what more do I want to create?
  • what do I want to explore more of?
  • where do I want to travel?

These are some good starter questions to ponder and help uncover what intentions you want to set. When you receive inner guidance, write your answers down.  Remember that you don’t have to have all these things figured out right now. Leave room for things to evolve and change. This is life :)

Transform your space into something positive + meaningful with hanging intentions

Hanging intentions set up

Set aside an hour or two. Find a quiet space, light a candle, and put on some nice, calming music.

Come prepped with:

  • acrylic + watercolor paints
  • glass jar + water
  • script brush + other flexible brushes
  • paper towel / regular towel
  • watercolor paper / printer paper / whatever…
  • framing wire + paperclips and / or small clothes pins (to hang your intentions)
  • your written intentions, on paper

Some extras:

  • candles
  • incense
  • calming music
  • water / tea / wine
  • a friend

Once you’ve got your workstation set, take a chunk of time to paint your intentions onto the paper you have. You can get as intricate, or bright, or multimedia as you want. You can fit lots of intentions on one piece of paper, or just write one.

I prefer very simplistic creations, so I just create usually with watercolor – and, sometimes a Sharpie. Each piece of paper usually has 1-3 intentions, then I divide them by cutting once they’re dry.

Whatever feels good for you is just fine.

And, of course, give yourself space to explore how you feel about what is going from hand to paper.

If you mess up, just start over. Even if you don’t like how things look, keep going.

When you’re finished painting your intentions, put them somewhere safe to dry overnight.

Tomorrow, go back to your painted intentions and cut them into rectangles and squares, so that you can hang them up.

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Instead of purchasing an expensive magnetic wire, grab some framing wire and cut to your desired length. I got mine at the local craft store for something like $2… then, twist the ends, so it creates two loops on each end – big enough to fit a nail or push pin, so you can hang them on each side.

Looped framing wire for hanging intentions.

Once you’ve got your wire at the right height and location, hang your painted intentions up! I hang mine with mini clothes pins or any kind of clip I can find. You can get these at any craft store.

Cut intention.

Hanging intentions.

Hanging intentions.

So, again, think about:

  • what do you most want to attract?
  • what do you want more of in your life?
  • what more do you want to create?
  • what do you want to remind yourself of?
  • what do you want to surround yourself with?

This is a beautiful and fun way to display your intentions somewhere you can always see them. Plus, it’s a fun process that you put your energy into, thus attracting more universal support. If you have someone who’s down to do this with you, it’s be a beautiful process to share. Grab a friend or your partner – and work through this together.

Your home is somewhere you spend the majority of your time – might as well make it inspiring and positive, no?

And, there’s no better way to do this than by covering the walls with your own creations and intentions, set from the soul.

If you’re interested, there is a group Vision Quest, which adventures through intentional and creative practices, like this, over 4 weeks. If you’d like to join, grab a spot here. I’d love to have you join us.

Oh, and if you missed the first lesson, you can read it here.

Love,

Kristen

PS. what’s the BIGGEST thing you want to manifest within the next year? What’s the intention you’re going to create to attract it? Share it below!

How unemployment inspired me to [re]create my life from within

Do work that matters.

I tend to use October 5 as my benchmark to see how far I’ve come.

Why?

Two years ago I lost my job and jumped fully into the unknown – all within about thirty minutes. Stepping out of that office on a chilly Chicago day, I felt confused, scared, and disappointed in myself.

But at the core of it? I felt excited. I felt this faint sense of freedom, deep within my true self. I knew that the life of a desk job was not meant for me.

I navigated the Uncertain waters of unemployment checks, blogging + connecting with others online, interning with nonprofits to keep me busy, writing content about how I felt about the world, and creating my life from the inside out.

No idea what was going to happen, I kept taking action, every single day, towards the life + dream I wanted to live.

I feel more aligned and purposeful in my life today, because of that decision to reclaim my creative power. I write. I create. I paint. I lead. I serve. I love. I travel. I move. I still navigate the river of Uncertainty… and do my best to do it with love, grace, and humility.

The best thing we can ever do is to create our lives from within. To align our inner and outer worlds. This is a practice, because it’s not something taught or encouraged, usually. It sometimes feels like a battle just to be WHO YOU REALLY ARE in a world that’s trying to stamp out your unique self.

I never would have chosen to be forced from the comfort that was my life. Who really wants that? I would have never chosen to actively seek out unemployment. But, without that experience, I never would have known what is possible for me. A life of beauty, creativity, and connection. Something I didn’t know I needed, but now I couldn’t live without.

And, even though the path is always unknown, realize that it is up to YOU, up to ME, and up to US to create that path we walk. It is not dictated by others: it’s shape by us, whether consciously or not. We sculpt it with every decision and move we make. And? As long as we do it with the love and grace from our inner selves, we will never go wrong.

Two years ago, I never would have imagined where I am today, but I feel so grateful and enriched because of it. I can see, looking back, that my first year of Uncertainty led me to making tons of connections, writing, creating, and letting myself be seen. I participated in so many projects, met so many beautiful people, and invested in myself. I often say that I learned more in one year of Uncertainty – about myself, the world, and my inner self – than I did an the entire 4 years I spent in University school experience since age 5. 

Reflecting on what I’ve done in the second year post-unemployment, deep in Uncertainty, I have:

The second year of Uncertainty, this past year, still feels uncertain in a way, but I’m learning how to ebb and flow with it. I realize that my life is mine to create. To allow and release and heal.

It’s been all about exploring new things, being much more intentional with how I spend my time and energy, and very specifically: grounding + healing. My mind and heart have blown wide open because of the beautiful people who continue to flow in and out of my life. I’ve been so inspired by others: their resilience, their humility, huge hearts, and compassion.

My relationship with my partner teaches me every single day how to truly be who I am in this life experience. It’s my biggest mirror and I embrace the challenge. I know that I am not always right and he keeps me humble.

Continuing to create and reflect and serve others gives my life meaning. I feel fulfilled + grateful that I can share my story, shed some light, and inspire you. I believe there’s always another way we can look at something, we just have to get creative. This creative alchemy is my mojo. It’s what I love to teach. It’s what I love to see others practice. This platform and community allows me to do just that: changing the world from the inside out, person by person. 

My life feels more aligned that it ever has with my true self. Of course there are times when I don’t feel like I’m walking the walk because of the frustration, anger, or hurt I feel. Sometimes, a strong sense of imperfection keeps me from doing anything. But, I always remind myself that by healing myself, I can heal others. By showing up, I inspire others to show up. I am only where I am today because I chose to create my silver lining, instead of waiting for one.

I’ll leave you with this:

“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.” – Steve Jobs

So, cheers my friends, to creating a life – and a silver lining – that is true to you, no matter what happens.

Love,
Kristen

PS. I’m running a beautiful course, called Vision Quest, that helps you regain your sense of confidence after loss, confusion, or any other experience that leaves you feeling misaligned with your true self. Watch the video to learn more :)

Bring it to light (a creative project to transform negative beliefs)

This is the first lesson in the 5 lessons in 5 weeks for creative + intentional living. Each week, I’ll be sending an email and posting to the blog, so pick and choose which of these practices feel good to do for you. If you don’t vibe with this one, that’s cool… there’s more coming your way, soon :) If you want these directly to your email, sign up here.


Your deepest, darkest beliefs sit as far back in your subconscious as possible.

They hide, dart, and elude you. It’s their job.

The ego controls them and takes hold of the reigns once you start paying attention.

But, the ego doesn’t always win the fight: the more you know and the stronger you believe in your worth?

The faster those negative beliefs scatter away, and poof, like magic, they’re gone.

Shining a light brings up a lot of emotions and feelings.

You may not feel ready to let go of the negative thoughts you’ve carried for so long.

Do you even know what life could be like, without them?

Well, for just a little bit, let’s try.

This creative project to transform negative beliefs works like this:

  • identifying negative belief
  • creating perspective-shifting affirmations
  • crafting together affirmation cards for personalized support

All it takes is five steps.

Five steps with an open heart, open mind, and open eyes.

Let’s do this.

Here’s how to bring it to light and change ya life.

Identify limiting beliefs

What does your inner chatter say?

Write down the most unloving thing you’ve said to yourself chronically, over the years.

Once you’ve identified this, it’s time for a perspective shift:

Who are you not to be loved? Who are you not to be worth it? Who are you not to be smart enough?

Replace with: I am loved and cared for by the universe. I am worth all the love and care I receive. I am at peace.

Also: think about what you’d like to introduce into your mindset. Do you want to be more confident, kind, empowered?

Write these down, too.

Words are magic, so take care with this step.

Create a list of as many affirmations that feel right.

If you’re having trouble coming up with your own affirmations, I have a step-by-step guide on exactly how to create them here.

I also have a Pinterest board of affirmations you can borrow from.

Let’s get crafty: break out the card stock

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Grab some card stock, or anything that you can cut up into pieces that are roughly 2 inches by 5 inches, or whatever is the right size for you.

Make sure the paper is clean from distractions.

Cut out one piece for each affirmation you have, or as many as you want to have once your affirmation booklet is done.

You can always leave room for more to fit in the future!

If you don’t have card stock, use another strong type of material that will withstand the inside of your purse or pocket :)

Put it together

Step three

Once all your cardstock is cut up, hold them all together and punch a hole in the middle of the shortest side.

Tie together with some jute, or anything else you have that you can tie.

Write the affirmations

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Write your affirmations out on your cards with sharpie, or another bold medium.

These are your affirmations!

Create a strong and confident representation of what these affirmations mean to you.

Bring it to light

Step five

When you’re done, you have a portable + personalized guide to help bring your negative beliefs to light.

Using affirmation cards created specifically for you – by you – is a powerful step in taking back your power.

You don’t need to go out and buy fancy affirmation cards.

Make them yourself, love.

You have the power, now.

Refer to these whenever you need an inner boost.

Eventually, you may find you don’t need these anymore.

At this stage, you can paint over them and create a new little guide, or just keep it around for the future.

To your inner power, truth, and strength,

Kristen

PS. What negative belief do you most feel needs changing? Share yours below and I’ll help you transform your first negative belief into a positive affirmation.

PPS. There are now 3 seats left for the Guided Truth Quest: a creative group awakening program. Want to be a founding member? Read more here and snag a seat if it resonates.

Hi! I'm Kristen. I am a transformational life coach, writer, and artist.

As You Evolve is about living your truth, [re]creating your life + embracing transformation.

I believe to change the world, you must change yourself first.

Everything I write about comes down to learning to live + speak your truth. It manifests in many ways: synergizing inner + outer worlds, transforming your mindset + healing past wounds. Most of all, it's about guiding your life from within and seeking validation only from yourself. It's something I'm still learning, too. 

If you feel in need of soul-alignment, community + guidance from a non-judgmental + compassionate source, I encourage you to dream + explore alongside me + the rest of the free spirits who call As You Evolve their home.

Thank you for being here,
Kristen